Last week was a whirlwind adventure - one that I won't forget in a long time. I have good news, but I'm not quite ready to announce it. But along with all the good luck, I learned some very valuable lessons that I would like to share with you all:
1. Writing is like playing the piano. If you don't practice regularly, you get rusty and don't sound so good.
2. Revision is a writer's best friend. Sometimes you get mad, have a fight and never want to see it again, but you'll always be best friends.
3. Rejection is a growth process for the writer. It weeds out those who are serious from the ones who aren't.
4. Even in the meanest critique, a kernel of useful feedback can be found or a valuable lesson can be learned, like never ask the meanie to read your work.
5. Venting and whining can be cathartic, as long as it doesn't take over. Feeling sorry for yourself is fine - but always give yourself a time limit. No more than 2 days maximum whineyness allowed.
6. Always support and cheer for the successes of our fellow writers.
7. Don't let the naysayers poison your mind.
8. Perseverance is the key to success.
9. Good critique groups and beta readers are priceless.
10. My Mom was right. I'm not a chicken. I'm an eagle. Cue the cheesy 70s music.
So happy everything is coming up roses after the rain! Go, ello, go!
ReplyDeleteNelsa
I had to laugh at this one: "Even in the meanest critique, a kernel of useful feedback can be found or a valuable lesson can be learned, like never ask the meanie to read your work." SO TRUE!!!
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you. This entry made me a little teary-eyed. (But don't tell anyone.)
Cheering for the success of my fellow writer,
Jenn
Good things to learn throughout. Sometimes it's harder to practice all that though. but I know it even if I don't always follow it.
ReplyDeleteAm so glad, Ello!
ReplyDelete(You can only mean one thing!)
grats, el!
ReplyDeleteno cheese for you, just fly!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnlTrq6wLf0
I really needed this today. Thank you. :D
ReplyDeleteOoo...Ello, does this mean what I think it means?? If so, I'm incredibly happy for you!! Yay!!!
ReplyDeleteYour lessons made me laugh, but there is truth in every one. Awesome.
Loved this. :-) Congratulations on your upcoming news, Ellen!
ReplyDeleteYay, Eagle!
ReplyDeleteCan't wait for your news!
ReplyDeleteI don't know what it means, but I'm happy for you anyway!
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ReplyDeleteAwesome! What fabulous points to remember! Congrats on your good news...can't wait to hear more!
ReplyDeleteOh I can't wait to find out. I'll stay tuned for sure.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, and thank you for the encouraging post. I needed it today.
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ReplyDeleteNo Naysayers, for realz! Yay!
ReplyDeleteYeah! So pleased to read your post. I love those bright sunny days.
ReplyDeletenew follower from Adventures in Childrens publishing blog. Great post! (I also have news I'm about to announce. Can't wait to hear yours)
ReplyDeleteWOOT!! I can't wait until you can share your news!!!!
ReplyDeleteGreat list. Not only do I look forward to hearing the good news, I'm looking forward to hearing Summer's reaction to the good news :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to create this list. A number really resonated with me. Congrats on your news - whatever it may be.
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to create this list. A number really resonated with me. Congrats on your news - whatever it may be.
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to create this list. A number really resonated with me. Congrats on your news - whatever it may be.
ReplyDeleteThanks for taking the time to create this list. A number really resonated with me. Congrats on your news - whatever it may be.
ReplyDeleteWhat is it? What's going on? Will it make that grumpy marching pig smile?
ReplyDeleteSatta king
ReplyDeletei like this blog post